... who keeps his oath even when it hurts. Psalm 15:4b
An oath - a vow - a commitment... Each one requires resolve. Each one requires diligence. Each one requires sacrifice. Are these merely the same thing?
An oath is something that is taken. "I... do solemnly swear to support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic..." This is said by every man or woman who enters the United States military - from the lowest private to the Command-in-Chief. These words require a soldier to stay the course - to defend our country and its foundation - even to the point of death.
A vow is something that is given. "In token and pledge, I give you this ring as a symbol of my constant faith and abiding love..." Words similar to these are spoken by every man and woman who enter the vow of marriage. They require a spouse to stay the course - to remain side by side - till death do us part.
A commitment is something that is made. It is standing by a friend through thick and thin. It is the embodiment of the same resolve, diligence, and sacrifice required by an oath - by a vow.
What is it that makes these so similar?
An oath is taken, a vow is given, a commitment is made... even when it hurts.
Lord, I don't know if I like this fact; being mature and responsible will cause pain. But it helps me to understand why some people never really grow up - why I still struggle to this day. When everything in life seems to have caused pain, why would I choose more?
Father, help me to see that pain is a part of life, but staying the course - even when it hurts - will bring rewards beyond anything this life can bring. Let me dwell in Your sanctuary today.